A brilliant idea. Not mine. What if I were to give my partner 20 minutes of my time each day? to do with whatever he likes...I am available. Dishes? cleaning? wash the car? rub his back? look into his eyes? chat? cuddling? I'm all yours. No arguing. No judgement. With acceptance and love.
A couple who tried this experienced amazing surprises. After a few days the partner got over the surprise. What?! Are you kidding? Alright! Could you? Would you? Yes. And then the urge to also offer time to the other. Soon their experience took on the proverbial "gift that keeps giving."
My partner is the most important one person in my life every day. I think it's worth a try!